Everyone wants to look good and feel good naked as you can’t be sexy if you don’t feel sexy. You don’t need to have a perfect body to be or feel sexy though! Your partner won’t notice the imperfections you think you have and if they do, maybe they shouldn’t be your partner anymore. Life’s short, spend it with someone who worships you! So this week, we’re looking at how to get body confident in the bedroom.
Take Care Of Your Body
Try to improve your diet and start a workout routine, whether it’s in the gym, running or even just walking the dog more. This doesn’t just help you look good, it helps you feel good as well. When you exercise, your body releases endorphins which make you feel awesome. Exercise also makes you stronger and more flexible, making sex and different positions easier and more comfortable to maintain.
Start Every Day With A Positive Affirmation
Yes, it sounds pure cheese but it really helps. Check yourself out in the mirror after a shower and notice parts of your body or your face that you like. Maybe even pull a few sexy poses, no-one else is watching. You will realise that you’re a lot sexier than you thought. 90% of being sexy is feeling sexy.
Dress For The Occasion
Just like the saying goes, “dress for the job you want, not the job you have”. Put in some extra effort, do your hair and makeup and consider a sexy outfit. A sexy lingerie set or even just a pair of stockings and heels can make you feel like a pornstar. Bodysuits are great for hiding imperfections while drawing your partners’ attention to your main assets, so they can be a great starting point.
Tease Your Partner
Tease your partner and work up their appetite. If you’re going out for the evening, wear something sexy that will draw attention. A mini dress, sexy pair of heels or a top that shows a hint of cleavage will turn heads. Your partner will know they’re the one going home with the hottie everyone’s looking at which is a huge turn on for both of you!
Have Sex In Better Lighting
This can be a tough one if you’re not feeling confident, but forget the idea that you’re only sexy in the dark. Remember your partner is with you because they think you’re perfect and they want to see you, all of you. You don’t need to turn the main light on, but light a candle or turn on a lamp as this will accentuate your curves and really set the scene.
Fake It Till You Make It
If you’re not feeling like a glamour model, don’t get disheartened. Like we’ve said, being sexy is mostly in your head, so be bold, be provocative and most importantly, have fun!
Naughty Butt Nice
At Naughty Butt Nice, we’re here to help you look and feel sexy and we hope this post has helped show you how to feel body confident. We stock everything from lingerie, bodysuits, stockings, suspenders, corsets and accessories. Need inspiration? Contact us via live chat, social media, phone or email and we will be more than happy to help.
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