Sexuality is an important part of any relationship and unfortunately, it can get boring. Introducing sex toys into your relationship is a great way to spice things up, have more fun and keep the sexual flame alive. If you haven’t started playing with toys as a couple, we’re here to tell you more and help you incorporate adult toys into your relationship.
The Benefits of Sex Toys
As a woman, we understand the benefits of sex toys as many of us have used them on ourselves. Sometimes, however, our partners may not share this understanding. If that’s the case, it’s really important to start a conversation that lets you explain how toys can enhance not only your pleasure but theirs too. The more you both understand about sex toys and their benefits, the easier it will be to find toys you like and introduce them into your playtime.
Research On Your Own First
Before you dive into a conversation about sex toys with your partner, it can help to know the facts first. Go online and look at various sex toys and stores to find what interests you most. If you have specific toys in mind before you discuss them, it can be a lot easier to sell the idea to your partner. Once you are familiar with a store, it will also make it easier to go through options with your partner after you’ve both decided you’re keen to give them a try.
Drop It Into Conversation
Sex toys are much more accessible than they used to be. We see them online, on the high street and recently, even in large grocery chains. Mentioning that you have seen, or read about a certain sex toy is a great way to start a dialogue. You can then ask your partners thoughts on it and see if they’re open to trying it at home. Suggesting an idea as something you’re curious about also avoids your partner thinking they’re inadequate in any way.
We wrote a whole post about how to discuss sex toys with your partner which will also help.
Go Shopping Together
So you’ve discussed the idea with your partner and you’re both keen to delve into the world of sex toys. Shopping together online is a great way to start your journey. You can discuss the toys you’re browsing, whilst remaining in the comfort and privacy of your own home. Be open-minded and discuss your questions or thoughts, communication is key.
At Naughty Butt Nice, we have focussed on categorising our product ranges to make it easier for our customers. Sections like “Sex Toys For Couples“, or “Sex Toys For Her” give you a great starting point. Once you’re in a main category, you have endless filter options so you can shop by brand, size, material and main features to name a few. This really helps, especially when you’re starting out and trying to figure out what you like/don’t like. Shopping online also gives you have direct access to product reviews from other customers. Reviews can help you understand the toys you’re looking at, giving you confidence before you buy.
When first introducing adult toys into your relationship, start small and work up. Finding the perfect toy/s will be an ongoing journey of trial and discovery. Starting small allows you to test toys, without them being intimidating or uncomfortable. Once you find toys you like, you can always go larger or more advanced.
Vibrators are a great toy to start with and benefit men and women alike. Start with something like a vibrating love egg. It’s small and unintimidating but provides great clitoral stimulation, or pop it inside to stimulate your g-spot. You can also use love eggs on him. Roll it over the head or shaft of his penis, or along his perineum which sits between the base of his penis and his anus and he will love you for it. Starting with a vibrator is a quick way to demonstrate the benefits of sex toys and it will definitely whet the appetite to try more.
Cock Rings are another great toy to start with and they’re perfect for couples. Cock rings can help men last longer whilst maintaining a solid erection, which helps you both out. You can also get vibrating cock rings that stimulate her clitoris and surrounds, whilst also pleasuring him. If you want to further your experimentation, you can try a cock ring with a butt plug as this will also stimulate his prostate, which will really enhance his orgasm.
There are hundreds of other product types that tantalise any desire so experiment and enjoy the journey, there really are no limits. Give any new toy more than one chance, as you need to learn to be comfortable with it before you really enjoy all it has to offer. Keep the conversation open while you explore your likes and dislikes. Introducing sex toys into your relationship is a liberating experience with endless pleasure for you both, as long as you are open and honest along the way.
Naughty Butt Nice stock a range of sex toys for couples and we’re always happy to help. If you have any questions or want to know more about any particular toys, you can contact us on live chat, phone, social media or email.
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