Tired of making the same New Year’s resolutions every year, only to fail by the 3rd January? That’s because New Year’s resolutions suck! Well, it’s time to change that. This year, focus your resolutions around your sexual pleasure, self-discovery and fun instead. Below is a list of 10 sexy resolutions you will want to keep.
Please note however that you should never do anything that you or your partner don’t want to do. Consent is everything and that includes your partner consenting to new things you want to try. Now to the fun resolutions for the new year:
As you’re at Naughty Butt Nice, you might own a sex toy already. If you don’t though, then this is your time to try one! First, think about what you like. Do you like clitoral stimulation, penetration, anal play or being restrained? We have a huge range of sex toys and bondage gear that will do exactly what you need it to. Whether it’s your first toy or you already have a collection, this year is the year to add more.
Initiate More Sex
Do you usually wait for your partner to give you a sign that they’re down for some hanky-panky? Well this year, take life by the horns and be the one to initiate it. You don’t need to drag him/her into the bedroom, throw them around and have your way (unless that turns you both on). You can start small and be the one to kiss them first, or whisper in their ear that you want them now. Take control and you will not only have more sex, but it might be more exciting too!
Indulge Your Kinky Fantasy
Everyone has a fantasy and this year should be the year you enjoy yours. Discuss your fantasy with your partner and if they consent, play it out. In return, get your partner to tell you their fantasy and act it out for them as well. As long as fantasies don’t push your hard limits, they’re a great way to try new things, find new kinks and spice up your love life.
Try A New Sex Toy
Have you got a go-to toy or only ever used one kind of sex toy? There’s nothing wrong with having a favourite, but variety is the spice of life. Why not use this new year as an excuse to try something new. If you love clitoral stimulation, why don’t you try a toy that stimulates your clit in a different way, or maybe try a rabbit vibrator that also provides internal stimulation? If a cock ring is your toy of choice, maybe this year you should try one that vibrates as well.
Masturbation is the best way to learn your body and what you like, but so many of us don’t do it enough. Spice up your self-love sessions and find what stimulation you enjoy the most. What feels amazing, gets you off the best, or quickest? Take this post as permission to play with yourself more this year. Not only is it educational, but it’s also soo much fun!
Masturbate Together More
Talking of masturbating more, we never said you have to do it alone! Masturbating with your partner is not only really exciting, but you also get to learn what they like. It can go down in a number of ways. You can masturbate side-by-side with your partner, or facing one another so you can both watch. Your partner can play with themselves in front of you, then you can switch so they can watch. Or one of you can control the others masturbation, tell them to go faster, slower, use this toy, etc.
Roleplay is an excellent way to spice up your love life. You get the opportunity to sleep with someone else, whilst not actually cheating on your partner. One of you can be a police officer while the other is a criminal. Maybe you fantasise about sleeping with a doctor, so play that out with your partner.
If the above isn’t exciting you, why don’t you just pretend to be strangers? Meet at a bar and introduce yourself for the first time. Maybe book a hotel room so you don’t have to ruin the roleplay by going back home. The options are endless.
Have Sex In A New Place
Not all sex has to happen in the main bedroom, at night with the lights out. Whilst that may be a great and safe environment, it can get boring. Why don’t you spice things up and have sex on the lounge floor? Maybe bend your partner over the kitchen counter or on the dining table for some spur-of-the-moment action. You can also book a hotel room for the night to get you out of the house. It’s amazing how dirty sex can be when it’s not at home. Spontaneity is fun and exciting so enjoy your adventures.
A lot of us have a certain spot that intrigues us but that we’re nervous about touching, it’s usually your butt. As long as it’s not on your hard limits list, why not experiment. If you’re a man, prostate massage gives you stronger and better orgasms so why not try a prostate massager and increase your pleasure. Even for ladies, using something like a butt plug can increase your pleasure during playtime and intercourse. As long as it’s done right, anal play isn’t as gross or strange as you may think so give it a try.
Talk About What You Want… And Listen Too
The best way to improve your sex life is communication and it’s the thing you need to do before you try any of the above! Talk to your partner about what you like and you don’t like and discuss what you’re both comfortable with. Tell him/her to be more gentle (or rougher), to slow it down, touch you here, lick you there. Teach your partner what you enjoy so you can both get the most out of your playtime. And just as important as talking, listen to your partner as well!
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